Queen B. Divine knows this question sounds deep, but it trips over itself the moment it’s asked. Because love, real love, doesn’t arrive with a warning label or a fine-print disclaimer. It doesn’t come in “mostly positive, sometimes harmful” packaging. What people usually mean when they ask about the negative side of love isn’t love at all — it’s attachment, fear, control, or expectation dressed up in a prettier word.
She’s learned that love doesn’t hurt. What hurts is clinging. What hurts is hoping someone will be what they never said they were. What hurts is confusing intensity with intimacy. Love itself? Love expands. Love steadies. Love tells the truth without needing to raise its voice.
Queen B. Divine feels love in ordinary moments most people rush past. In the quiet hum of a room before the day starts. In the way her body keeps breathing even when her mind is tired. In watering plants and trusting they’ll grow without being watched. Love isn’t fireworks — it’s rhythm.
When love feels heavy, transactional, or draining, she doesn’t blame love. She checks the definition being used. Because love doesn’t shrink you. It doesn’t bargain. It doesn’t require you to disappear to be earned. If something costs your peace, your voice, or your self-respect, it may be familiar — but it isn’t love.
So no, she doesn’t have a negative example of love. She has examples of misnaming things. And once you stop calling everything love, real love becomes easy to recognize. It’s the thing that lets you stay human without apology.
Queen B. Divine didn’t exit because she was dismissive. She exited because the answer was already lived, not debated…..
LOVE IS ALL POSITIVE -love is the moment you are in right now – breathing is love, love in its simpliest form
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