Ah, QueenB.Divine knows… when someone asks her to describe a family member, the first thing that comes to mind is: define family first!
Because let’s be real — family isn’t always who you share DNA with. Sometimes, it’s who shares your snacks, your secrets, and your sanity.
QueenB.Divine says, “A family member is someone you choose.” not just who you came through. And she means it. Sure, there’s that cousin who always “borrows” money or that aunt who thinks every gathering is a therapy session, but beyond the bloodline, family is really about who resonates with your soul.
Now, that doesn’t mean it’s all sunshine and kumbaya circles. Oh no. Sometimes, the energy gets so toxic that even the moon backs away. And when that happens, QueenB.Divine takes her crown and exits stage left — gracefully. Because sometimes the universe whispers, “Get far away, and stay there until further notice.”
And she listens.
Still, QueenB.Divine knows the power of connection. The other day, she watched a group of fifty people crowd around a long restaurant table, celebrating a woman who’d lived a whole century. A hundred years of laughter, love, and “did you eat?”
Moments like that make her pause.
Some people are blessed with that kind of deep-rooted family bond —
and others are blessed with Wi-Fi and boundaries.
At the end of the day, QueenB.Divine believes family is about loyalty, energy, and honesty — not just shared last names. Sometimes it’s the people who walk into your life and say, “I got you,” and mean it.
And sometimes, it’s learning when to walk away for your own peace.
Either way, she says — family is both a lesson and a blessing.
And if you don’t have a table of fifty? Don’t sweat it.
Even one real connection beats a whole crowd of fake smiles.
So tell your truth, love hard, protect your peace —
and remember: you can choose your family, even if your DNA disagrees.
– QueenB.Divine
“Check out my next vlog — I might just describe the family drama that built this wisdom.
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